you are so young, you have plenty of time to figure out what is the best for yourself. don't borther by such tinny thing. being there maybe good for you, because you have been in single love for a half year; but being there maybe bad, maybe you find more things you don't like or stand for during dinner...whatever, as time goes by, you will know what is good for you. quote from another post "begin with sensibility; end by sense"